The value of an engagement and engagement ring.
The practice of giving precious gifts or things of great value as a symbol or deposit to a lifelong promise of marriage is no new thing. This has been practiced all throughout history. But before we even could go further on the matter of the value of an engagement ring, let us first look at the value of this special phase in a soon-to-be wedded couple’s lives which is being “engaged.” This is important since the engagement ring only actually represents the value of the offered new relationship status of being “engaged.” What we now call an “engaged” relationship status is actually a watered-down version of the age-old practice of “betrothal.” In many cultures and during biblical times, to be betrothed to someone means that you and the other person are already bound (even legally) to marry another and this betrothal bond is much stronger and permanent than the usual engagement that we know today.
Although the giving of dowry for a bride prize has been frowned upon by some as objectifying women as possessions to be sold, there are deeper cultural and even biblical aspects of the practice that shows a more enduring and deeper value for this practice that we could learn.
The payment of dowry symbolized a commitment by the groom, expressing gratitude for the care and protection provided by the bride's family, particularly the father. It also acknowledged the father's role as the guardian and provider, and the dowry marked a transition of authority from the father to the husband.
In the Christian theological framework, the metaphorical imagery of Christ as the bridegroom and the Church as His bride holds profound significance, especially in Ephesians 5:25-27.
Christ is pictured as the groom who has sacrificially given himself as a ransom and payment for His beloved bride, the Church. Christ's sacrificial love for the Church, drawing parallels to the commitment and love expected in human marriages. Read More...
February 03, 2025 - BY Admin